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Hi Anup cheers!, straightaway don't jump to divorce it is worst & u wont get easily, try to pull out smoothly sit across ask for mutual and if not then send a conjugal notice to come and join - if she is not interested to leave with u she only propose for divorce. all the best
Dearb Anup. Are u still interested in continuing relation with her or u still loving her. If it is true then follow Mr crony's advise. Other wise dont waste time apply for divorce in the family court in ur place. Then they will send summons to ur wife to appear in the court. if she does't attend there also for some 10-12 hearings they will become ex party and ur dirvorce will be easy. good luck ravikumar
Hi ravi ur worng in family court they will not make any orders against woman x-party expert order or even contempt of court also they wont do.summons all eye wash it will come back then they will ask to send rpd, u have to pay stamp charges again wait, again send keeps on i have gone through, many speed post, its worst go as said if they come take them to some far away place or leave them in native or parents place then u will get what u want.
hi Anup, if straightway send mc/divorce notice, then notice service, vakalath, counseling, section **a, mediation lot a hell min * years+ u will be end up paying maintenance. if go through as said they may do expert order in ur favour to come and join ur wife if she didn't agreed then u can proceed with mc & need not to pay maintenance it will be ***% urs. all the best
hi crony thanks for the advice but m not convinced let me tell you few more things which i came to know later about her, i feel i have been cheated, i hv came to know from my sources who are known to her family that she will not give me divorce infact she want a share in my property & as what you said that i should send her a notice to come and join and if she accepts that and come, then what if she do something with herself and file an fir against me and my family for the same. i dont want to get myself involved in other cases of dowery mental torture etc. etc....
Hi Anup, I do understand your situation, as I have gone through that already. You are in a trap, and you are lucky that you don't have any children yet. Other wise it would have been a nightmare for you. Indian law has no solution for your situation (If you find a way do let me know too). That is the reason that you will find many profiles in this matrimony as “Separated”. You can force her to come and join you going by Crony way. That would need a lot of courage and careful strategy, and you have to be tough not with your wife but also with your in-laws. This would be a long time battle. And if your wife uses the same tactic after a child birth then you are doomed. You can go for a court battle as Ravi said; It can be long battle, bringing your dream of a married life to a complete standstill, and a lot of hassles. But if you sure of the separation then one thing you can do is find a soul mate and start live-in progress your life, you can marry after legal separation. This way the divorce case becomes just one court case, not a show stopper. In this way even if the legal battle prolong it will be your wife who will be the loser not you. And this will also force your wife the think whether it is worth wasting her life just for some property, which she is not sure to get.
Thank u Mr. smruti rajan i am also in the same position as anup is facing where mine's is little different her mother itself asks here to steel from my house and these words i personally heard when they were talking trough mobile and that time i was sleeping and when she came to know that i know the matter she consumed tables and she was hosptablised. pls tell what to do
..if what ur are saying is right...then do something before she does something like that...otherwise u will be in trouble.....divorce in cases of non consumating..usually dont take much time...
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