Depression Death

Pl tell me how to handle this situation.

dont take any hasty decisions..first come out of ur depression then u will be in a bettr position to look out fr a lifepartner..

Really pleasant suggestions…… also to share few more thought from my side yeap! It’s most terrible & far-fetched event happened in your life…. Loosing a spouse to death is the hardest thing that most of us will ever face. When the surviving spouse is elderly, this loss is even harder. As an adult child there are some things you can do to help one parent to cope with the death of the other. Acknowledge the fear that your parent is feeling and encourage her to talk about it. If he has been with his wife for many years, his loss is compounded by his fear for her own survival and ability to cope. He is probably not sure that he can live without his wife and what will happen to him from here. There are people who need babysitting service, or caregiver for older adults. Get involved with this type of service. Find clubs that with help you get over your loss.

Time is the biggest healer. Do not take hasty decisions. Engage yourself in other activities. After u r in control of ur emotions think of re-marriage by weighing its pros & cons.

Well all the 3 Om,kishore and kapil's comments were true....

I am very grateful to this platform where atleast some sensible people understand the inner wound which is not going to be heal.I really respect the feelings who atleast gives their thought.It ia milestone for me. Cheers

I feel I the younger most one here and please doesn’t take it as a suggestion but just consider it as a thought. Its not only you who got suffered in this sort of trouble to feel shy, worry you have got failed something, you got been cheated there are many includes me who has been suffered lot due to this shocking crisis. In fact I took this very serious as a normal and later noticed that mine nothing I have faced when compared to others who all I know. “Just one statement if you are true, then need worry the time will surely explain the impacts of all those tragedy” Infact the one who has done this to you might also understand his fault and will come back one day for forgive and forget his mistake… (Mark my words) for the moment just think realistic that we must stay alive by hook or by crook at least for our existing relations think you are back to single once again in your life and sure this time you are more ready to act.

But one thing never think about going sanyas, i hate that because sanyas is the only resolution for all the problems everyone goes sanyas will not going to be any change and the one who created this issue will continue her life with someone and only we will loss the our life's. Instead if you feel you need some releaf why don't you start doing some food/money distribution to the orphans, old age peoples and physically challenged peoples at least your karmas will gets purified.... Not a lump some amount required atleast monthly some rs. 100 might help many... need not have to continue your whole life till the time you feel distree in your life... I started doing this now i feel bit relaxed and free...

Live for what reason you born for... Never change, your destiny also end up differently......

time will not heal the pain....i know from my own experience...you will have to find out a way to deal with this...no body can fight yourown battle...pull yourself up and try to give your children all the love n affection...take a step to wards remarriage only afte rtaking ur child into confidence