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Should I ???

My wife died in a car accident 2 yrs. back.I have a son for whom I care a lot..He also cares for me a lot ..almost like a mother.. Shd I think of marriage again???
Replies(5) | 2010-Jan-12

manju81
25-Jan-10

Not at all a problem in getting marriage again. You say that your wife is dead so you are not going to cheat anyone. That is now a days even if first wife is alive the people marry another by hiding the first one. But in your statement you are true and also say you have a son he needs a mothers care total care cannot be given by a man alone but only a woman can know the childs mentality well. You didn say the age of your son. But marry a lady who will be both mother and wife for you. All the best sir.


manju81
25-Jan-10

Not at all a problem in getting marriage again. You say that your wife is dead so you are not going to cheat anyone. That is now a days even if first wife is alive the people marry another by hiding the first one. But in your statement you are true and also say you have a son he needs a mothers care total care cannot be given by a man alone but only a woman can know the childs mentality well. You didn say the age of your son. But marry a lady who will be both mother and wife for you. All the best sir.


milli
27-Feb-10

dear you forget your past and enter in new lifeneena


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I think you should discuss the matter with your son. You try to get some inputs from him about effect of second marriage. Dont criticize him and let him speak his heart. If you find a intense feeling of attachment with his mother, then I will suggest you to wait for some time, till he starts thinking rationally. If he thinks he can give it a try , then you discuss with him what can be required from him and what he can expect from new mother. If you can handle expectations of both you son and your wife, you can have a happy time again.


grandmaster
29-Apr-10

life goes on. if you are miserable alone, do it. don't look for excuses such as 'my wife would want me to go on'. go ahead with full knowledge that if you remarry, you are doing it in order to find happiness. a happy father makes a happy child.


grandmaster
30-Apr-10

and sorry about your loss. my wife died the same way, i understand how it feels. peace be with you.

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