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Fighting parents OR seperated parent, which have more impact to a kid


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There is always talks about kid with no father or mother. Pittiness has shown to the kid greatly. Yes a disappeared parent is a big loss to a kid. Financial problem, external people issues, psychological issues of kid by comparing with other kids who have parents. But what the kid, who is undergoing scenario in a bad home where father and mother fights daily. If one is trying to stop, other don't. I remember one of my friend saying at his age 22 when we finished our college, "hi friend, my parents are always fighting". His confidence level in any thing is always one step down. Which kid is really facing issue, those who with fighting parents or with a single parent? ( Assume the parents do not have survival problems and they are independent)?
Replies(1) | 2008-Nov-20

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In my opinion for a kid a single parent is better than fighting parents.


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what are they fighting for then? where is the love and understanding? excuse me i am divorced but i never had fight with my ex to be honest...( we both had this silent treatment attitudes).. cheers


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Judy, your case might be both are matured but incompatible. But many cases one may be nagging type. You can be silent for a few moment or day not bothering, but that is too difficult. Home is a place for peace, support and happiness.


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30-Nov--1

I GUESS FIGHTING PARENT HAS MORE IMPACT ON KIDS RATHER THEN SEPARATED.. BECAUSE EVEN KIDS CAN UNDERSTAND SLOWLY THAT SOMETHINGS NOT RIGHT BTWEEN THIER PARENTS SO THIER LIVE APART... BUT FIGHTING PARENTS IS SOMETHING THEY REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY FIGHT FOR ACTUALLY... SOMETIMES THEY ARE RIGHT TOO BECAUSE PARENTS FIGHT FOR SUCH SILLY N IDIOTIC THINGS.


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I knew a couple with th same scenario...after their seperation...there were financial probs for the kid...and other things...even though the kid misses the otther parent quite badly... stlll..that kids score in school doubled...after the parents seperated...he is a happiier person now...

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