NO NO NO...already you are expecing second marriage to fail WHY.......so why have you created your profile on this site then ? No one knows about tomorrow life is too short, you cant have this attitude and be on second shaadi.com, you should be on fiftyshaadi.com if you are having such an attitude. You are human i think like anyone else and the joy and blessing of having a life partner by your side to share your joys and sorrows...dont you wanna try that ? One knows why their first marriage ended be it through incompatability, or an arranged marriage or even through death, but does that mean that one should categorise his life as a failure and expect his second marriage to break down ? I think you are feeling very negative about it right now but the positive thing is you have your profile on here and maybe if your input is positive you will meet albeit a second marriage partner but also your jeevan saathi..which I think would be a blessing, again no one knows about tomorrow, many of us did not foresee divorce, there is nothing wrong unless you make it wrong...come on you are a man..are you not...your input into searching and finding and then making it work is required.....live each day to the fullest...and try to turn your sour experience into a positive one like I have.......keep smiling...
miss jaanvi r you not realizing that every body on this site has a lack of confidence.there is a lot of member who whant marry again, & every biodata has so many qualities & even than no budy belive any body.&this is why we r serching profils...?only searching& serching........ by the way thanks a lot for your kind co opration. i am a positive thinker & this is why i am here but honestly jaanv its very difficul to belive some one?? i am waiting your openion on prakash issue als0. thanks.
Yes I agree with you that the searching & searching and further searching of profiles goes on and totally once bitten twice shy is the rule it seems but why does and would any one have the time to lie to someone else, there must be players on this site but also serious women and men searching for their life partner as this is a good platform for us to use, I know a few good examples of internet sites and success stories leading to marriage...if you are positive then this is not the forum you should have started is it ? but I guess you are correct from your own experience.....i wrote already re prakash...well good luck...and be positive..more.....
Madam JANVI. May i know why r u here and to whon u r searching for. I tell u something i have a confidense that i can manage with any one who would be next. But i am sure u dont have such confidence. Because u dont know how to set ur life with compermise. And u cant compermise with any. Which is very neccesary for happy life for both side. So that u r searching and searching and i am the only proposing and proposing. Cause i realy need a life partner who can it be. But u r searching for 100% perfect man. I dont know u can found him or not. I am realizing that every woman here not for searching a life partner they all r searching 4 perfect man. Thats all. So please be care full this time. I dont think u will get chance for third marriage.
wellcome Mr! hayyat! plz say somthing on this topic......
Hi mr. Vishnu prabhakar. Main aapse hindi me hi mukhatib hota hun. My dear friend mujhe nahi lagta ki yanha per registed jyadatar womans dobara shaadi karne ke liye aayi hain. Arey unhe to shayad ye bhi pata nahi hai ki jivan shaathi ka matlab kya hai. Meri nazar me dushri shaadi ek bada samjhauta hai. Agar aap dono samajhdar nikle to aapki shaadi kaamyaab ho jayegi. Warna saari zindagi ek dushre ki taraf peeth karke guzar jayegi. Aur ek baat aapko ye samajhna jaruri hai ki aapko naye jeevan sathi ki jarurat kyun hai. Kya aapke kitchen ko sambhale wali ya aapke ghar ko sanwarne wali chahiye. Aur womans ko ek cororpati husband shirf ish liye chahiye taaki wo puri tarah aish kar sake. Muaf karna mujhe na to aisi biwi ke rup me naukrani chahiye aur na hi aish karne wali aurat. Mujhe to aisi aurat chahiye jiske saath main apna gum apni khushi baant sakun. Wo hath chahiye jo apne aanchal se mere aansu aur mere maathe ka pasina ponchh de. Iske badle me main ushey dunia ki saari khushiyan uske aanchal me daalne ki tammna rakhun.
Main apni late biwi se bahut pyar karta tha aur wo bhi mujhe utna hi pyar karti thi. Uski death ke baad main bhi jeena nahi chahta tha aur do baar sucide attempt bhi kar chuka tha par ghar walo ne aur freinds ne marne nahi diya. Dost achhi aur nek biwi chali jaye to jiya nahi jata aur biwi bewkuf ho to mara bhi nahi jata aur jiya bhi nahi jata. Mujhe nahi pata kitne log yanha mujhse shahmat honge. Dost ish umar me aapko ek biwi ya husband se jyada ek sache dost ki jarurat hai. Jo aapki taklif me dukhi ya aapki khusi me khush ho. Jiski ek muskaan aapke din bhar ki thakan ko mita de. Jiska kanddha aapke sir ko tarshe. Jo aapke liye hamesha bechain rahe. Jiske bina aapki zindagi adhuri lage. Ek baat aur main unn ladies se kahna chahunga jinhe paise wala husband chahiye. Jo khud ko unsecue feel karti hon. Madams jo ish umar me aapse shaadi kar sakta hai to wo aapka bojh bhi utha sakta hai bus fark itna hai ki aapka bojh kitna hai. Aisi baatein karne wali aurate shayad apne talaaq ki sabse badi wajah hain. Baki sab khuda janta hai. Agar kisi woman ko ek sache aur humdard dost ki talash ho to hath badha kar dekho kai mil jayemge. Paise wala chahiye to dhundo aur dhundne me apni umar ko ganwa do. Aap ye mat dekho ko saamne wala aapko kya desakta/desakti hai haan ye jarur dekho ki aap ushe kya de sakte ho.
Miss janvi i am very sorry to say with this atitude which u have now u cant find ur partner. By luck if u choose any one or if u got ur Mr.perfect man i dont think so it will stay long. I am sorry i dont have any rights to put my fingur on some one. But i guess u r not looking so serious about ur re marriage. The reason is not laks of ur confidence the reason is u r the patient of over confidence. Listen janvi now i want to tell u one thing seriously. If u r serious about ur re marriage then change ur self. U should change ur atitude and plz be polite then u can see u can win the world. I wrote here what i feel i may be wrong. So plz dont mind
Miss janvi i am very sorry to say with this atitude which u have now u cant find ur partner. By luck if u choose any one or if u got ur Mr.perfect man i dont think so it will stay long. I am sorry i dont have any rights to put my fingur on some one. But i guess u r not looking so serious about ur re marriage. The reason is not laks of ur confidence the reason is u r the patient of over confidence. Listen janvi now i want to tell u one thing seriously. If u r serious about ur re marriage then change ur self. U should change ur atitude and plz be polite then u can see u can win the world. I wrote here what i feel i may be wrong. So plz dont mind. Its not for that u refused my proposal its why u didnt told me the reason of refusing. That why i guess about ur charcter and atitude.
oh dear...so much tempers...you have...you have no manners.....i did not read what you wrote...coz its not worth...
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