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Interference of Inlaws(Groom's Parents) is a main cause of Divorce


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These days maximum Divorces are taking places bcox of inlaws(parents of the groom) interference between the couple. If any other person stops interfering between them and let the couple stay happily then Lot of Divorces can be avoided. In most of the cases a girl is compeled to take care of her in laws but when it comes to a boy this never happens . If a guy is asked to do any minimun duty towards his inlaws then he or his parents/family may think that he will become a GHARJAMI in cousre of time and so stops him from interacting with his wife's family. ... Consequently , misunderstandings and bitterness grows and as a result the couple get divorced.
Replies(3) | 2008-Oct-01

skollegal
30-Nov--1

If a marriage does not work out, it is better to divorce than live in constant hell day in and day out. Divorce is good for males and females; so is marriage. No difference really. As for children, well they will eventually get to accept the situation as it is more quickly than we think. They are in fact more mature than their parents having seen them have a go at each other everyday for years before the final separation came. Ask them and they will say it was for the better. FOR THEM, not for the parents!


vsconsult
30-Nov--1

Srini What you tell me sound right but, then however mature kids are they understand and have a peaceful life. But within their own mind they always hold a fantasy of their parents rejoining together and that fantasy can never be broken.


azad2
30-Nov--1

May be God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be greatfull 4 the gift When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened 4 us Always put ur self in others shoes. If u feel that it hurts u, it probably hurts the other person too. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything ; they just make the most of everthing that comes along there way Happiness lies 4 those who cry, those who hurt , those who have searched & those who have tried, 4 only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.Love begins with a smile , grows with a kiss & ends with a tear. the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, u can't go on well in life until u let go of ur past faliures & heartaches.


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not only they stop the guy from interacting with wifes parents...some of them...even want to stop the wife from interacting with her own parents....as if that was possible.

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