Isuue Problema and its solution

very strange question? One must ask this question to himself/herself before proceeding further for the marriage. I dont understand, does it make any difference whether the child is your's or from the previous marriage. However, it does make the difference, whether you are able to accept the child as yours or otherwise. So ask this question to yourself and if you are comfortable then there is no problem to marry the person having child because a child has no fault in the dispute between his/her parents so why the child suffer. I think, if we marry the person with child we must know our responsibilities first. thankx Siddharth Tomer

Handdle the Package in toto. Or leave in toto. otherwise another big Problem. not only physically. You have to support emotionally (Which is very hard untill unless you love him/her the child) and most imortant Finnacially (For day to day exp and in your inhertance). Think All this and than accept the Package. And I see no problem with the child. It is his/her right.

Thanks sidharth. I m 100% agree wid u. And my thaught is same to u. I have seen so many problem created in re-marriage in such subject.

Strange question to ask...well if during marriage you cant support each other during the good or bad times of which many come then what is the use of the marriage...if one is having the issue then the other is not then that OTHER is the support system for the one with the issues and in short space of time the issues become irrelevant and so proceed to happy marital bliss with the respect that in times of need the other supported the other...there is no marriage without support and compromise..and adjustment.....hmmm ....!!

Go and ask the kid if he/she can accept such a father who doesn't know what to do with kid.

Well said, Gitika!!

Fantastic and lovely point of view! Cheers to Gitika. Everyone thinks from his / her own point of view and no one bothers to think about the child in question. Thanks Gitika, I have learnt something from you today.

HI MADAM GITIKA. IN UR BIO-DATAU MENTONED THATSECOND MARRIAGE GROOM HE SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN. WHEN U HAVE CHILDREN UR WOULD HAS TO BE ACCPECTED IN UR OPENION. BUT U WONT ACCPECT UR SECOND WOULD BE HAVE CHILDREN. HOW FAR U R CORRECT MADAM. I REQUEST U PLZ DONT MISTAKE ME. THIS IS MY PERSONAL OPENION. REGARDS

The question seeker seems to be keen only on enjoying the fruits of the second innings without any liability &responsibility.??