UNUSUAL TIME PASS

This is absolutely true and I agree in totality. There are many female members who initiate the contact themselves and once accepted, there is no response from them, even to say that they are not interested. How very peculiar and promiscous!! Looking for those special qualities in your prospective life partner or trying to fill in the emptiness caused by previous tragic experience are secondary issues. Here, we are talking about the basic courtsey during initial contact. This type of irrational behaviour clearly indicates fickle mindedness, indecisiveness and a profound lack of manners.

Yes thats i am talking about. I can understand one thing most of thems are hurted and confidence looser. They should be very watchfull the second time. But yaar if you do not met another how it will comes to know how is he. Reply or talks dosnt means you are going to marry instantly. Many matters have to settel down. Than the marriage matter comes on. Any way dont know what they are thinking about. May god bless them with their happiness

hahaaahhh ooh you cant judge like this guys us women have millions of reasons why we do this and do not contact once accepted..u cant contact everyone can you..so i think once contacts made the sorting process goes on and then who is good stays and who is not does not...no need to feel bad...you both are feeling so bad for no reason...i think..hehehe laugh and the world laughs with you...........heheheh but how many girls have u done that to...not bothered with either..?

again..heheh reading ur comments...heheheheh plz laugh ...

Yes janvi you can laugh on us. Cause you people came here for have fun not for any serious discussion. But you forgot one thing who laughs on other's world laughs on him/her. This forum maked for us for some serious discussion. But you womans used this for have fun. Your words hurts me today. Any way if you people dont want to respond properly then why you people are here and why you people not denieng clearly we also go ahead. Yes i got few msgs of nagetive response and i am happy that they didnt maked me awaiting. Why others womans couldnt do that. I am sorry if my words hurted you. I am very simple man and i dont want to hurt any one. Thanks for your kind words.

i m govind singh negi from delhi looking for life partner

First of all thanks for sharing your views/thoughts in this forum. Well, I do agree with your frustration of not getting replies after initial contact. A simple "NOT Interested" would do. At the same time we need to understand that those "venusians" probably were just exploring to see what they really want. Its not only the language we speak is different, but also the way we do shopping for anything. Looks like members in both the planets, at least some at sometimes, do window shopping even if they are serious buyers. That's the only way (exploring) to figure out what they really want. Honestly, there could have been NO reason at all for them to NOT reply back. Remember guys, they are just exploring......! Being already in this forum we, both of us martians and venusians understand at least part of the each other's worlds to a certain extent and there is much more to explore. Its certainly a looong way (probably a life time process!). I believe it would be better for us martians if we could understand our own world first so that we get to understand the guys at the other planet. Having put our incomplete profiles ( cause, one can not display the inner self in a piece of paper or electronic media!) on an open display we have to be much more patient till that serious buyer comes by to show what we are and what we can offer to the venusians. I am sure you would find the right (in your language "serious") venusian and until then stay inspired and hopeful as the way we (including in India) do shopping has completely changed in both planets!. Good luck and cheers. PS: these are purely my own personal views and understanding and not to hurt anyone in this forum.

NO ...NOT LAUGHING AT YOU PERSONALLY IM LAUGHING AT THE SITUATION IN HAND...DONT GIVE ME UR BULLSHIT ABOUT WHO LAUGHS ON US THE WORLD LAUGHS ON HIM HER THATS BLOODY STUPID OF U TO IMPLY THAT TO ME AND THAT SHOWS YOUR TRUE COLOUR..WELL I TOLD U IF U LAUGH THE WORLD LAUGHS WITH YOU BUT I THINK U CANT COMPREHEND..DONT BOTHER TO RESPOND I WONT BE READING IT.

Hello madam i dont wan2 give you any thing. I told you the truth. Actualy what you know after living US or what ever it is you forgot the indian culture. So you believe in such stupid thaughts. And one thing your temperment show that why you are here. At first learn how to keep control your self. Than you will get better results in your marrid life. Otherwise you will go for 3rd 4th 5th i dont know how long it will go.

I believe effective communication is the only way to harmony not only in this forum, but in life too. We all must watch our words and be kind enough to each other rather than bringing out the worst. I think it is mainly due to Hidayat's misunderstanding of the phrase "Laugh And The Whole World Laughs With You". I think she has tried to explain that later. I believe she was trying to cheer him up and take it sportively. Lets leave it here and move on. Please remember that the site can ban a abusive member from discussions.