Are we truly nice people as we calim to be?

Well, I have to agree with your personal perception. Indeed we all perceive differently! All that I am saying is my perception could be distorted from the truth of who I am. That's all. There is nothing wrong about us perceiving ourselves as nice and better the other, as long as it does not get us into unending trouble. Cheers.

Looks like many read this posting, but reserve their opinion/understanding/experience from sharing. may be out of fear that what others would think of their opinion/expression in an open forum like this?! Well, that has been one of our problems that keeps us from being free human beings, don't you think? I see, our mind pays too much attention (mine too) to others opinion about us and worries about being judged. Then the whole drama starts of being the person of everyone else choice than just being ourselves. we just end up spending all our life time as puppets to our minds, i mean most of the time. Well, there is a possibility that we could just start watching what is happening in our daily life. And may be we would enjoy life more, the moment we start freeing ourselves of all the TRAPS. Getting rid off the traps one after another might take a life time, but it is a possibility that awaits us just to see it that might make them vanish! can we do it? Shall we just be ourselves? Let us discuss about what I am referring to as "being ourselves" in the next posting. Well, we don't have to wait till then!! Cheers.