what should one do for successful second marriage?

HI Mr RAJ RAVI HERE IT IS A GOOD QUESTION. ONE CANNOT GET TAILER MADE HUSBENT OR WIFE. BUT I FEEL COOPERATION, CONTRIBUTION AND COMPROMISE ARE THE 3C'S FOR MEN/WOMEN IS NEEDED FOR SUCCESS MARRIAGE. AND ALSO FOR A SUCCESSFULL MARRIAGE BOTH SHOULD CULTIVATE BEHAVIOR'S LIKE MATURE MINDED, UNDERSTANDING, TRUST, GOOD CULTURE,PATIENT, HELPFULL,SUPPORTIUE. AND ONE MORE THING IS INLAWS SHOULD NOT INTERFERE IN THE SON-INLAW'S FAMILY UNLESS IT IS BADLY NEEDED OR ASKED TO INTERFEAR

Second Marriage? Before proceeding further for the second marriage. one should calculate/think about the reasons why the first marriage got broken. Any one husband/wife or both can be faulty. There can be many reasons like, ego, non cooperation, money, job, less earning, parents inferefarance, in laws intereference, working women, non working women, non working husband, husband addicted to work, abusive language and quarrel, not able to give sufficient time to husband/wife and many more reasons depends upon the life of each persons. if we want to make our second marriage successful then we must prefer the other persons with the habits which she/he both likes and can live together with their habits. We must not compromise just for getting married or just for the need of sex partner. Wait and find the suitable one, late is better and bitter. Siddharth Tomer

Thank you very much Mr.Ravi & Sidhartha for ur valuable opinions

No one is perfect....not even the moon so...its all about being emotianally tuned to one another...your past marriage should not affect your re marriage at all and under no circumstances should you let it and also let the other persons past marriage affect your wonderful future...its very simple really...but not every one thinks the same.......!!

Though no one is perfect, Siddarth statement is agreeable to some extent.

Do not get re-married on the rebound. Get over the failed relationship first. If you dont, then your failed relationship will begin to guide your second marriage. And ........ you'll end up being lonely and hurt all over again. Also, hope and pray the second one works ...

I agree with Sidhharth on this one. There is no question of allowing our previous marriage or past experience to affect the second marriage. In fact, someone who feels he / she deserves a second chance in life and is really serious about finding a suitable life partner, would certainly try to identify his mistakes in previous marriage and learn lessons from them. Yes Rohit, we all should pray that the second one works. Prayers are what all of us out here need.

it is really very traumatic experience to get that person out of my heart with whom i stayed for 10 yrs and now if i get someone how could i be sure with him .bcoz heart says something else and mind says the other.

hi all, whats praying, we all did some mistake in past so we r here let we correct our self and others. As you sow, so shall u reap / you reap what you sow - come on to my new tread guidelines 4 second marriages - expand the JOY !