Problem may be aries or not to be. If problem aries it might be between matured person ( if u r realy a matured person ) nd unmatured person. Dear if u think u r a matured person then dont think for marriage with new comer young girl. U can not set ur life peace fully. Rest depends on u.
hiya, well the main problem i see is after a few years when the man is old & he cannot funcion phisically, sexually & emotionally wheres you will have lot of energy so u will look for a man * might cheat leading to problems, also depends on you & your lifestyle if you r simple & at *** feel like ** than u can go for it also is it love or arranged? depends on each individual i guess, but overall dont go for it,,
i have my friends who have married girl ** and boy ** now * years i think they have a excellant life. we are all proud of them more so becuse it was intercaste and girl side really had problem. but now that boy truned out to be so sensitive and mature he has handlede the situvation very well . now all members of family accept that boys age and maturity has made such diffrence to girls progress as lady and more so loving lady of both families. all the best if you are planning it is more with ur implusive nature how well it is handled by other partner
Good things: same like any other normal marriage... problematic things ( in short) : Age difference between kids and dad, financial insecurities at later stage, emotional insecurities (wife as well as kids), wife's dreams, husband of other friends, kids will have more responsibility before they complete college ...... I think that girl at ** is too young... so difference between ** and ** is MUCH more than ** and **.... if it is her second marriage (widow) then can be a bit ok ... else she DESERVES unmarried and younger....
Dear Friends, Thanks a lot for your nice response. Please note that, this is not my case of 44 - 21 , its one of my friend. I am just searching right candidate for my self. Regards, Chako
i used to think age is not a barrier for love and marriage cos i myself married a man 25 years older than me.We were married for 7 years and a had a son before we decided to split.We split withou even realising the real reason behind it.the only thing i realise is that we are better off as friends than as a married couple.Our spilt had nothing to do with our age difference.i think it all has to do with our personality and the maturity of the person involved. everyone's experience would be different hence we cannot say if such union will last or not..BTW, I still believe age is not a barrier for love and marriage.All that is important is to have the same level of understanding and acceptance of the difference from both the parties.
Absolutely no problems, it is not age that makes you old. it is your activities that very much keep you young, Thought Therapy, yog that you mentioned, all these guys who have been giving you suggestions, believe they might not even go for a walk after a meal, I find you asa passionate person in life having so many interest,. a woman would not always sexual thought's when you have so many things happening around, and when she accompanies you.. I wish you good luck if she is your right choice in the terms of thought sharing, I mean if your mind frequencies match.
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