Hi shasi congrats 4 choosing a very nice subject 4 discussion. Ya its never feel like that when a boy/girl goes for marriage first time with a drum of dreams and full of excitments. But at second marriage fear of separtion takes place of dreams and excitment. I wan2 ask all member's of secondshaadi. First think ur self why u all wan2 marry again. What u want from ur new life partner. What u can serve to ur partner. Then u will get ur answer of ur own questions. See u later shashi.
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let me thank you for the reply and true that is the diffrence i am talking about feelings here is giving rather then expecting i think we are i refer here to people who want to marry second time f, are more of givers and we feel like sharing rather then expecting great things as we know life is simple and never u shd complicate things.
Yes shashi thats what i wan2 say. Dear 2nd marriage starts with a compromise and feers of divorce. Some time its works properly some time not. And some time its fails quickly. I have so many examples in fews i was involbed for settel down them. They faught with very small reason which they can be ignor that reason. The reason was the man slaped his step daughter formaly. But after saw the man slaped her daughter she started beating her step son badly. When the man asked her reason she asked him the reason for slaping her girl. The matter goes upto separation after more argument. But i went there and maked them understood. So what u will do if u faced such situtions.
Shashi, let me tell u that we are all here because we feel the importance of having a partner/companion to share our life with. This feeling is unanimous (even gay members of the society are NOT exceptional to this natural feeling). I am not talking about but everything that the "togetherness" brings to the table, not just sex. Men and Women are made to be together living in communities (society). I think, that's how the human race did survive the evolutionary pressure and its keep evolving. At this modern time in evolution one CAN live without the partner and enjoy all that they seek for. Since we are here lets not talk about those who are fine by being alone themselves . About your giving thing....We still remember to give what the partner wants than what we want them to have or we would like them to give us! This is something that I feel I need to work on more than before.
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