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Looking for a meaningful relationship online?

17 Nov 2008 11:23 AM by Sachin Gupta in Wedding
There are many dangers in online dating that may occur because of the anonymity. On the net we also are unable to recognize the physical cues that we see in everyday life, such as body language, dress, personal hygiene, tone of voice and how we are able to judge verbal statements. It is also possible that people can be looking for various things, one person may be looking for a meaningful relationship while the other may be looking for some thing completely different.

Precautions:

  • Use security first-maintain a degree of anonymity

  • If you are emailing your online dating partner-use free email services like hotmail

  • Do not use details like surnames, phone numbers and addresses

  • Use honesty-do not lie or exaggerate

  • Offer references and perform background checks.

  • Note the content of the emails-if they are general in their content there may be a problem, women are more influenced by words and men are influenced by images-be careful of persuasive writers.

  • Beware of each other's expectations and intentions.

  • Talk on the phone a few times before arranging a meeting.

  • Do not believe everything you read online. You can be anything or anyone you want to be online. That tall,dark,handsome 24-year-old guy may not be tall, may not be 24 and most importantly, may not be a guy.

  • Listen to yourself. All of us have an inner voice which tells you what to do. And more than often it's right. So listen to it.. even if it is feeble.

(Courtesy: http://shaaditimes.com)


150 Comment(s)

amitabh :

on 08 Sep 10 at 3:52 PM

Hi...Preeti from bhopal...i liked ur profile and would like to go further on negotiations if u can read this post. I'm the kind of person ur looking for...i can assure u that.

vijay :

on 07 Sep 10 at 4:34 PM

HI GUYS IM VIJAY FROM CHENNAI IM LOOKING A FAIR YOUNG LOOKING GIRL AS A LIFE PARTNER . I

vikas :

on 07 Sep 10 at 4:34 PM

if drop of water falls in lake there is no identity,but if it falls on leaf it shines like pearl,so choose the best place where u can shine........

prakash :

on 07 Sep 10 at 4:34 PM

Hi Girija, Thanx for accepting my request, but I am not able to view ur profile. Plz allow me to see ur profile. Plz give ur male ID in this forum, so I can contact for further details.

sai :

on 07 Sep 10 at 4:34 PM

am looking for a girl for second marriage i was already bitten by a lady specially widowed, divorced or never married please am very serious....

girija :

on 07 Sep 10 at 9:58 AM

hi dear friends i search for marthi partner but i get other cast interested profile also not matching to my age . only*off them i am interest there may be free site to talk regarding this , i have daughter & i like such person who accept with her this my first preferance since my husband death i lost my one year

girija :

on 07 Sep 10 at 9:58 AM

hi

prakash :

on 07 Sep 10 at 9:58 AM

Hi Girija, I am Marathi boy. I reside in Bangalore. I have sent u my request. Consider.

vikas :

on 06 Sep 10 at 4:28 PM

Dera ramchandran,pls keep on searching here as well go for newspaper matrimonials.you will get results. also pls make clear in ur mind what kind of companion u are looking for?? all d best in ur search

Ramachandran :

on 06 Sep 10 at 4:28 PM

iam searchinfg a homely lady co opertive well adjusted she can expect the same from me iam in hyd

Krishna :

on 06 Sep 10 at 10:26 AM

I would like to made contact with any southindian female who really affectionate and willing to exchange good things, since i am looking for humorous, loving sincere female

yadi :

on 06 Sep 10 at 10:26 AM

any girls for casual relations mail me

yadi :

on 06 Sep 10 at 10:26 AM

any women 4m hyd looking for casual relations mail me

Ramachandran :

on 06 Sep 10 at 10:26 AM

more than one month iam active member paid member of this site i sent many interstes according my profile and the matching capitability but sorry to say no member i sresponding that much manners i snot with the memberts frankly they can say sorry i am not intersted i dont think this site is use ful or not for seraching a right partner

Mr C K S :

on 03 Sep 10 at 6:22 PM

Well Fdnz, Think +ive? Look @ diz World as 1 Huge Chocolate Cake. It would nt b Complete wdout a few Sweets & Nuts. Sweets like Me & Nuts like U

saurabh :

on 03 Sep 10 at 9:57 AM

Hi Reena How R u , U r right ur views is a real as per our society

sanjay :

on 03 Sep 10 at 9:57 AM

Dear Darshan : this is your requirment from your prospective partner......I like CUTE,SMART,FRANK, SEXY GIRL trdional like me & my family pls rply .........Ha ha ha ....so your family has cute smart frank and sexy girls...........wowww

lakshay :

on 03 Sep 10 at 9:57 AM

hey gal m facing the same prob here. wat to do?

kumar :

on 01 Sep 10 at 11:16 AM

hi, definitely there are some genuine people here. I hope to find some one here. I am orphan and never married. now settled in financial life. working as marine engineer. talk to me on sriformatch at gm ail. I am interested to give new life to a widow or cheated divorcee girl. hope you understand my views.

sanjay :

on 01 Sep 10 at 11:16 AM

It,s unfair to lose hope if you have any....finding right one is called search.. and search should go on..have faith on you-self ..if not then have faith on god....but one should have faith

sanjay :

on 01 Sep 10 at 11:16 AM

Mr. Kumar i recognise you..you are here from last*years..evey time you write this....but you were never seen from many months...are you still searching or looking for another??

kumar :

on 01 Sep 10 at 11:16 AM

Hi Sanjay, i am still searching for suitable girl. not yet found. As I work as marine engineer, I cannot check mails frequently.

sanjay :

on 01 Sep 10 at 11:16 AM

Ohh I see...but cant you find any girl from within your official circle??/ since you are a free man no tag like DV or Seprated ..and are in a good position...why are you waisting time spl on SS?? you have plenty of options..you can always give advertisement in various local newspaper or even you can see from local News paper.. by the time you must have find some one and you may have one or*cute kidds till now......any how all the best to your search...

Reena :

on 31 Aug 10 at 7:24 PM

Dear friends, I have lost my complete trust in finding a life partner via a matrimonial site. My experience so far has been mixed..I don't understend why far too younger men are sending interests..I am sure there must be very good and genuine people out there...but there is too much risk of getting cheated .(this is for both male and female).And my firm belief is that God will send the right partner at the right time..Universe has its own unique way of uniting people..who are meant to be together( for those who have faith). What is meant to happen will happen.Thanks for allowing me to share my feeling...Good luck to all in their search..

ajai :

on 31 Aug 10 at 7:24 PM

hi disha aap kaisi ho. hum kaise communicate kar sakte hain.

Reena :

on 31 Aug 10 at 10:34 AM

Hmmm meaningful relation online...Impossible..too risky...and not good for the eyes( too staining)..

Reena :

on 31 Aug 10 at 10:34 AM

too much strain for the eyes ..i meant..

mohna :

on 24 Jun 10 at 10:27 AM

This is a matter of surprise for me why a person does not wish to show his actual particulars or details in his profile????????? more surprisingly they are saying that they wish to enter in a relationship.I wish to add here..........if you can not trust even yourself........please dont fool others.

Geste :

on 23 Jun 10 at 6:34 PM

Hi... I have registered my profile a weeek ago and accepted soo many profiles. I am new here, I am in search of real life partner, plz guide me to approach a right person.

Rahul :

on 19 Apr 10 at 10:31 AM

When widows exclaim loudly against second marriage, I would always lay a wager that the man, if not the wedding-day, is absolutely fixed on.”

Rahul :

on 19 Apr 10 at 10:31 AM

“Widows are divided into*classes -- the bereaved and relieved.”

Rahul :

on 19 Apr 10 at 10:31 AM

A real friend is not one who only entertain you, but one who cares about you, one who will be there when you cry

Mr C K S :

on 09 Apr 10 at 10:13 AM

Dear Friends, It's a really best & very Informative post for this site. Well Done n Just Keep it UP. Your's a best good wisher Hi Friend, I,m f9 n presently in Patiala & Plz tell Whatz about you? Think you are Well & Amp; All that is Well with You. No Doubt Nature will Read your Thoughts & Amp; True. Plz add in Contact B-coz, A friend is Honest, True & Friend is precious, Always Like U. Would you like to enjoy wid adventures for whole a life then contact nine*one six*one six*one*& more n more. Try 4r Your's Pleasure. Regards Mr.Dixit

gagan :

on 31 Mar 10 at 4:35 PM

hi all friend good day

Megha :

on 17 Jul 09 at 3:21 PM

Hi everyone...Hope our desires and expectations from the site are progressing in postitive directions :) I am pretty new to this site. I would really appreciate if someone could share as to what I need to be aware of in interactions with people who show interest in me. All the best to all members.

SAvita :

on 14 Jul 09 at 6:34 PM

Naresh, ur own comment is answer to your point as you said you have your own reasons to marry a lady elder to you.

rakesh :

on 14 Jul 09 at 10:23 AM

THANKS RASHMI AND CREATIVE,CHOLA AP SAMJHDAR HAI MALUM TO CHALA ,NAHI TO ME KUCH OUR SAMJHA RAHA THA,,THANKS FOR SHOWING OWN INTRO,

Dinesh :

on 14 Jul 09 at 10:23 AM

As far as in my experiences, I often come across only one danger my system gets crashed by some new virus. Whatever precautions have mentioned here I believe each person should like themselves honestly and speak honestly.

rakesh :

on 13 Jul 09 at 10:08 AM

DEAR SHILPA,I M CONFUSED,,UR R RASMI AND UR R SILPA,,YAAR APNA PURA PROFIL TO LIKO ,,OUR EK PROFILE RAKHO ,,CONFUSED KAR DEETE HI

Geste :

on 13 Jul 09 at 10:08 AM

creative ji,ye rakesh naam ka bawakoof kaun hai.

Geste :

on 13 Jul 09 at 10:08 AM

Oh...Lagtaa hai seedhaa Agra se bhaag kar aayaa hai SS per..Bach kar rahnaa..isee bhi sabko ek samajhne kee bimaari lagtee hai...

surinder :

on 13 Jul 09 at 10:08 AM

i am searching for a loving, caring lady who can make my house into a home and also take care of my only son.

Geste :

on 10 Jul 09 at 6:24 PM

Hi everyone, i am new to this site i will appreciate if someone help me to know this site more. Thanks

Naresh :

on 10 Jul 09 at 4:17 PM

SAvitha.. its not that guys who are younger to u as u mentioned (between age group of **-**) are just looking for a relationship, because i am ** and i recently got married. My wife is ** and i didnt have intentions of any hanky panky neither with her not with anyone else. more over she was a widow and me never married ever before. i found my mate on *nd shaad.com and i had my reasons to do so. just because of a few bad guys every guys gets a tag of being BAD.......

Yogita :

on 09 Jul 09 at 6:22 PM

mailvk if you want to know more about me then send me your email id & phonr no.

rakesh :

on 09 Jul 09 at 6:22 PM

rashmi apna pura profile to likho

Geste :

on 09 Jul 09 at 10:10 AM

hi sarita how r you please send me message i am waiting to your message

s :

on 08 Jul 09 at 2:43 PM

The decision of a second marriage is usually a lot harder and a doubt wheathe this can be success or not. Wise decession is to talk to the other companion to get together for few months. then go ahead for marriage or can be together in the case of above 45 . In the case of below 40 years to select,listen and go ahead. Since men have over anxiety to finish some work and forget ladies are not liking A second marriage is good if one understands each other and be emicable.

mailvk :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

HI YOGITA,KOTA I WANT 2 KNOW U MORE

balaji :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

Hai,iam searching mumbai living member as for my partner.caste,religion no problm.if intrested can view my prof.i will send my contact details.

chandra :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

hi pratibha

Subrata :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

Hi, Dear all Rakhi Sawant marry is introduced in TV Channel and she will find partner in media because she is very good minded girl.She wants love not money.

Geste :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

hai creative how r u?

Geste :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

Thanks Rashmi, aapke intzaar me samay beet rahaa tha.

Geste :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

Dil se kabhi pyar mat karna, Rona padega umar bhar warna !!

Geste :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:21 AM

Kisi ek ladki ke peeche mat padna , warna ladki tumhare saath mind games khel kar tumhara mental rape kar dalegi . Ek ladki ko kabu mein rakhne ke liye kam se kam das ladkiyan patao . Ya phir , seduce a gal , sleep with her and leave , this is what they like the most . Beware Some gals may use you as an importance making machines !!

Geste :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:20 AM

hai creative ji,hamesha keep in touch.dont forget,miss u

Geste :

on 06 Jul 09 at 10:20 AM

Rashmi Ji, aap to ek nightmare hai...kaise keep in touch ho saktaa hai.....We are living in our own practical worlds.

Rakesh :

on 03 Jul 09 at 10:12 AM

Hi Pratibha ji, how are you?

Rakesh :

on 03 Jul 09 at 10:12 AM

I mean you wanted to ask me a few questions.

koppuravuri :

on 02 Jul 09 at 10:51 AM

hello, chandralekha, rithvik, ur profile is locked, how can i communicate?, prasad, vijayawada

LAKSHMANA :

on 02 Jul 09 at 10:51 AM

Hi Good Day everybody spicedew

Vijay :

on 01 Jul 09 at 10:10 AM

Hi Guys how are you all.Me from Hyderabad

Geste :

on 30 Jun 09 at 10:14 AM

hi friends .....how are you all?

rk :

on 30 Jun 09 at 10:14 AM

hi savitha ji...gd mng...hw r u... do u think that this site is realy workable...for us... hmmm...

SAvita :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

Soory Subhash, but i never meant all the boys but most of the boys and secondly these are not the guys who are looking for second marriage, they are not even married. Even take my example, I am ** years old and most of the proposals I got are from the guys who are younger to me and are in the age group of ** to **. Isnt it funny and do you think they are looking forward to marry me? is

SAvita :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

Mukul, I am totally agreed with you.

rakesh :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

dosti ladkia kiu perpose nahi karti...kya,use hamari jarurat nahi

Geste :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

hi a

rakesh :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

hello friends ,,,how r u,,,i m not fine,,because i m alone,,,,

Geste :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

searching for my kind of girl... hopping that i will find her soon...

chandra :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:08 AM

anybody from hyderabad

jatin :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:07 AM

HI . Who can talk with me ? I just completed Profile today . I am new here . Who wants real life partner ?

Nik :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:07 AM

I m totallu agree with u Isha...

ANJANI KUMAR :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:07 AM

this iz only mis use of ur money to be paid member.i have not any response till yet while i have 3 mnths membership.......

Geste :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:07 AM

i am palani here,so many ladies sent acceptanse after they are silont. they tell their problems frankly, yes or no.

Geste :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:07 AM

hi anketa iam intrestate in your profile

JANGA :

on 29 Jun 09 at 10:07 AM

hi

rakesh :

on 26 Jun 09 at 9:45 AM

hi girls

Geste :

on 26 Jun 09 at 9:45 AM

hi anu

Subash :

on 26 Jun 09 at 9:45 AM

hi I am not agreed with savita view that all guyes are looking for an elder lady for their fun, why one person who already sufferred from life's critical situation once again he wan to do the same mistake, do again. Sorry savita

sachin :

on 25 Jun 09 at 6:21 PM

hi girls how r u?

Sarika :

on 25 Jun 09 at 6:21 PM

hi upen hw can i reach u

rakesh :

on 25 Jun 09 at 6:21 PM

HELLO

rakesh :

on 25 Jun 09 at 6:21 PM

HELLO HEMA,I M IMPRESSED ON YOUR PROFIL

kshitij :

on 25 Jun 09 at 6:21 PM

knock...knock..........

Anjali :

on 25 Jun 09 at 9:57 AM

hello

Geste :

on 25 Jun 09 at 9:57 AM

hello Anjali

Geste :

on 25 Jun 09 at 9:57 AM

hi Anjali... how r u ?? howz life how can we communicate

Geste :

on 25 Jun 09 at 9:57 AM

Anjali

Sarika :

on 24 Jun 09 at 5:40 PM

is there anyone serious for marriage or mostly are looking for timepass.

NIKHIL :

on 24 Jun 09 at 5:40 PM

HI ................. I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO CARES FOR LIFE & RESPECT LOVE AS WELL AS FRIENDSHIP..................... IS SOME IS HERE WITH SAME THINKING

NIKHIL :

on 24 Jun 09 at 5:40 PM

"is there anyone serious for marriage or mostly are looking for timepass. " YES MAM.............. U THERE ....I AM SERIOUS FOR MARRIAGE

pratap :

on 24 Jun 09 at 10:09 AM

hi, guys I am searching for a real life partner,pl read my profile and response.

Geste :

on 24 Jun 09 at 10:09 AM

I dont think i can find my better half from here..coz miss trust is alwayes there online..i belive untill you interct with someone and spend some Qlty time..only one can say YES this is the person i was looking out.. other wise time wast.. wht to you say ..?? must reply

Geste :

on 23 Jun 09 at 10:04 AM

hi friends, i am looking for a partner ? i m from thailand.

NIKHIL :

on 19 Jun 09 at 3:09 PM

HI ................ALL .. A VERY GOOD EVENING......................... MAY GOD FULL FILL ALL YOUR DREAMS

NIKHIL :

on 19 Jun 09 at 3:09 PM

HI ................. I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO CARES FOR LIFE & RESPECT LOVE AS WELL AS FRIENDSHIP..................... IS SOME IS HERE WITH SAME THINKING

Geste :

on 18 Jun 09 at 2:07 PM

well freinds, i need a partner. if anyone is interested then let me know.

Param :

on 18 Jun 09 at 2:07 PM

well I have been an open book in my profile with such simple requirements, but yet its so tough to find someone really interested to get settled with! Are there no women with kindred and helping hands these days? I have stopped believing in that fact these days

Dr Sanjeev :

on 18 Jun 09 at 2:07 PM

Sarika, Hi, Please go through my profile. Your ID leads to a profile with incomplete details. I want to know more about you. Regards

Geste :

on 18 Jun 09 at 2:07 PM

SARIKA---if u r doing a right click on name, then no profile will come. There is some error is coding of this site. Please change 'user_id' by 'username' in url and press ENTER. you will see the right profile. And each one is looking a right person for them...kise milta hai..yeh samay hee batayegaa....

Geste :

on 18 Jun 09 at 2:07 PM

we all are looking for the correct partner. its the right person that we r looking for. only destiny knows that who is the correct person and we can write our own destiny so lets c how much time we take to write our destiny and when we get the right person. gud luck to all

Sarika :

on 17 Jun 09 at 4:37 PM

creative ji maine apne sare details correct diye hain kyunki mai yahan par apni life settle karne ai hun na ki time pass karne. han ye hai ki mai paid member nahi bann sakti par jo paid members hain vo to respond kar sakte hain. unka bhi yahi haal hai. anyways thanks

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 4:37 PM

Saarika ji, i think that most of us have given our correct details cause i think that no one is here to pass time. After one bad experience do u think that life is so long that u can afford to pass time . i dont think so. each and every moment of this life is precious enough and no one intends to waste it.

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 4:37 PM

Well, i have been loking for a match and i strongly beleive that i will find it .

Sarika :

on 17 Jun 09 at 4:37 PM

rahul i was just answering creative message and not commenting on anybody.

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 4:37 PM

Sarika ji, i was just amplyfying the topic . nothing personal meant.

Sarika :

on 17 Jun 09 at 4:37 PM

girraj i could not see ur profile, its the same as of creative, rahul, so pl until i see ur profile i culdnot respond

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

One decision can take our life miles away. may be sum of us have taken wrong decisions in sumway or the other and hence we dont want to repeat the same mistakes again cause life is not going to give u a chance again. So lets decide very carefully as to what we want in our life.

SAvita :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

I totally agree with the views of the gals that most of the guys on this site are enrolled with wrong marital status and they contact a lady elder to them just if by chance they get an opportunity to have fun and some of them tell very emotinal stories about their past to emotionally black mail the person. In short its really tough to find a genuine person. and I am shock to know even there are femals who are also playing the same game here. I am sure even guys must be facing the same problem to find a genuine person. Its all luck and destiny if somone found a perfect soulmage. All the best to everyone.

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

i totally agree with the points brought out by Savita, its for both males and females. Its really difficult to find out that wether the person is really genuine or not. But again we all are human beings and we have to decide of our own that what is right and what is wrong. Difficult things helps u to overcome hardships easily

ravi :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

why you rejecteed me tell me one reason

ravi :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

why you rejected me i like your habits and the way you approached so i proposed you.do you like any body else

Sarika :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

smita could you tell me the ids of guys who r just flirting, i am new here

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

Sarika, It's very easy. Carefully analyse the words of person communicating with you. Yaad rakhiyegaa..Jo jyada meetha bole..kahin naa kahin daal me kaala hai....yaahan kutch women-centric log hai jo ladies ki taarif kar ke apna oolloo seedhaaa kar rahe hai...sab aap ki analysis per nirbhar kartaa hai..take care and cheers

Sarika :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

creative thanks for ur advice. yahan par kitne hi log hain jo interest express karte hain aur han karne ke baad koi response hi nahi ata unka aur kaiyon ko to maine interest express kiya aur unhone accept bhi kar liya par age kuch nahi. kya apko lagta hai ki in sites par register karne se kuch output nikalega.

Geste :

on 17 Jun 09 at 10:11 AM

Sarika Ji, Aaage communicate karane ke liye paid member honaa jaroori hai. Free member kewal interest show/accept kar sakate hai. So, only paid member will revert back to u. Give correct detail in your profile and may be some paid member will contact you.

Geste :

on 16 Jun 09 at 10:01 AM

yes LOTS OF GUYS ARE JUST HERE T DATE....!! THEY ARE NOT SERIOUS IF ANY GIRL WANTS I WILL SEND THE GUYS ID WHO HAVE BEEN FLIRTING...

Hina :

on 15 Jun 09 at 9:44 AM

To Find a partner is very difficult because in todays life u never know who is really trustworthy .And by chatting or meeting once or twice person cannot be judge.so finding it difficult.

Sunny :

on 22 May 09 at 11:47 AM

It always a good idea to know another person and not just talk to them for once and get ready for marriage.

GOPAL :

on 20 May 09 at 4:57 PM

hi later (paddy4), how are you ?please contact me soon --i seen your profile--its too good

Ajai :

on 11 May 09 at 10:29 AM

Yes looking for a friend as very meaningful here, So please post me if anyone looking for the same

rizwanullah :

on 11 May 09 at 10:29 AM

in old age or end half of life partner help is needed,so partneris necessiery after 45yrs.

chellappa :

on 28 Apr 09 at 4:18 PM

Normally people used to confirm second prideshould go for long bcos of bitterness had with firstwife In my case i prefer matching to my agewithout any expectation from her other than to take care of me whole life.

biplab :

on 20 Feb 09 at 6:07 PM

All some Happy New Year

Geste :

on 20 Feb 09 at 9:53 AM

all woman dpened of perents but affter one time you thought indpended all most indian woman thought but this is rong you chang your vew and make a nise famely if you are matchour

Krishna :

on 22 Jan 09 at 2:49 PM

some people give there acceptance after that they will not respond in second marriage

Geste :

on 15 Dec 08 at 10:02 AM

hi

Diana :

on 04 Dec 08 at 5:09 PM

To err is human... since this site promotes re-marraige I think its utmost necessary to take these tips and be extremely cautious this time... All da best to all who read this article and may you all find a suitable partner for life :)

monish :

on 04 Dec 08 at 10:11 AM

Marriage is the biggest gamble & as the saying goes (once bitten twice shy).So whosoever is working on for a second marriage be sure and truthful of what you exactly want). Don't be Hippocrates.

Mukul :

on 02 Dec 08 at 5:36 PM

To Dolly, Mam i think you think always negative even boys are not time pass as girls used to think so just make your mind broad as in the current scenario 90% fault is in girls boys are sensible & caring but girls are thiinking in the different manner as now days girls are forgetting the indian culture they mostly following the foreign culture & even now days girls are not at all respecting boys family & i haven't seen any tolerance power in girls they just think boys are like a dog so what ever we are doing is right i hope dolly by reading this u will reliaze that there is some thing wrong in your mind so please keep that away from your mind & wash your brain in the optimistic manner hope u understand this

rizwanullah :

on 02 Dec 08 at 5:36 PM

think about others help not for own

Geste :

on 02 Dec 08 at 5:36 PM

today all brides are looking the face of usa,uae,uk.i am afraid what will be of those grooms living in india?when i go through profiles whch looks interested but in partener preference mention usa,uk hurts me a lot.why we are missing our culture,our country,our family? why brides?

GORDHAN :

on 01 Dec 08 at 10:16 AM

Hai, maine aapsabko pada hai yaha .meriey samjh nahi aat aki lady ko ye kyo lagt ahai ki male apni profile me galat information dee hai...ye to male bhi kah skat ehai ki har lady apni puri information nahi deti ye to sab jante hai ye site second shadi ke lye hai..iska matlab lady ho ya male barabar hi hai na jab hum apne atit ko piche chor aaye hai chahe usme kisi ka bhi fault ho to kyo hum ek dusre ko doshi mante hai ya galat mante hai..........kyo na ek naye jivan ko phir se jine ke lya acha bartav kare shayad hame safalta mile shayad hum apni baki ki life ko chain aur shanti se guzar sake.

rekha :

on 01 Dec 08 at 10:16 AM

Its fantastic to read abour others opinion about opp sex........unfortunately I can't beacuse I am still alien to the world of marriage.............. Hopefully I will get someone soon.

Geste :

on 01 Dec 08 at 10:16 AM

hello,i believe this is the site which has given opportunity to bring*soul together.an optimistic approach n get in touch can give us a surprise gift for whole life..

ashish :

on 27 Nov 08 at 9:54 AM

hi vandy say yes or no so i can decide for further if yes a message please

Geste :

on 26 Nov 08 at 10:02 AM

I would like to share my experience here with u all. A man registered in this site immediately called me on phn after recieving my msg sent to him which came on his mobile phone although i sent it on mail.He without even having a look at my profile insisted on meeting.It seemed to me as if any female msging him is wellcome.

Geste :

on 25 Nov 08 at 5:28 PM

I have observed that there are many young guys who have just put their profiles with their wrong marital status. May be they are just looking for an opportunity to get friendly with divorced women. Taking a chance to have fun, pass time.

Geste :

on 25 Nov 08 at 5:28 PM

On the other hand i find this so strange.. for eg. a widower man with*grown up children of marriagable age whose wife died, she spent all her life with him and just after her death he starts running after other females.

Isha :

on 24 Nov 08 at 6:26 PM

HI, I think after accepting any proposal on these sites we should always involve our parents for this , bcz they r only one who know better abt us ..... n those who r genuine they will always contact parents first for further details.....

siva :

on 24 Nov 08 at 10:16 AM

you are absolutely right gauri.

emran :

on 24 Nov 08 at 10:16 AM

im sorry! what are u talking about gauri?

ashish :

on 24 Nov 08 at 10:16 AM

vandy is perfect match for me but i dont know why she is not calling me on my mb

Geste :

on 24 Nov 08 at 10:16 AM

Why most of the Indian think internet is just for fun. And they are not serious about the future or they just think these websites are just for time pass. I got so many fake profiles they didn't mention their contact no. and address. they just mention their e-mail ID. If you are looking for life partner you have to fill all about your self.

ashish :

on 24 Nov 08 at 10:16 AM

dr vandana(Vandy) i am just one step behind u if u say yes i too call me soon

krishna :

on 21 Nov 08 at 10:47 AM

gauri is 100% correct

dinakar :

on 20 Nov 08 at 4:05 PM

some people give there acceptance after that they will not respond in second marriage we shouldcompromise in certain areas if you compare to your old life partner .you cant move

Geste :

on 20 Nov 08 at 10:30 AM

after accepting a proposal opposite partner are offering a online chat but i thin talk on phone is better medium so u can come to know his talking style, is he hasitating to tell something, his pronounsation and many more things

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