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Looking for a meaningful relationship online?

17 Nov 2008 11:23 AM by Sachin Gupta in Wedding
There are many dangers in online dating that may occur because of the anonymity. On the net we also are unable to recognize the physical cues that we see in everyday life, such as body language, dress, personal hygiene, tone of voice and how we are able to judge verbal statements. It is also possible that people can be looking for various things, one person may be looking for a meaningful relationship while the other may be looking for some thing completely different.

Precautions:

  • Use security first-maintain a degree of anonymity

  • If you are emailing your online dating partner-use free email services like hotmail

  • Do not use details like surnames, phone numbers and addresses

  • Use honesty-do not lie or exaggerate

  • Offer references and perform background checks.

  • Note the content of the emails-if they are general in their content there may be a problem, women are more influenced by words and men are influenced by images-be careful of persuasive writers.

  • Beware of each other's expectations and intentions.

  • Talk on the phone a few times before arranging a meeting.

  • Do not believe everything you read online. You can be anything or anyone you want to be online. That tall,dark,handsome 24-year-old guy may not be tall, may not be 24 and most importantly, may not be a guy.

  • Listen to yourself. All of us have an inner voice which tells you what to do. And more than often it's right. So listen to it.. even if it is feeble.

(Courtesy: http://shaaditimes.com)


359 Comment(s)

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on 24 Jan 12 at 4:41 PM

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on 19 Jan 12 at 5:16 PM

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on 19 Jan 12 at 5:16 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

Pakistan President Zardari departed on a one-day private visit to Dubai amidst a standoff between the civilian govt and the powerful military on the memo scandal.

Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

"This matter will be fully investigated."*US military officials, speaking on condition of anonymity, said the video appeared to be authentic at first look but Reuters could not independently verify the video or its source.

Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

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Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

The timing of the call was not divulged, except that it has taken place within recent days. Yesterday, Pakistan plunged into fresh turmoil with the powerful army warning Prime Minister Yousuf Raza Gilani of "grievous consequences" for his recent criticism of the military and ISI, and the Premier taking them head on by sacking the defence secretary over the memo scandal.

Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

Meanwhile, Pentagon Press Secretary George Little said US chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, Gen Martin E Dempsey, has spoken to Pakistani Army chief Gen Ashfaq Parvez Kayani.

Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

WASHINGTON: Amid growing tension between the civilian and military leadership in Pakistan, US has said it had not sought or received any assurances from the Pakistani army that it would not stage a coup. "I'm not aware that we've sought any assurances, and I don't think we're aware that we've been

Anurag :

on 19 Jan 12 at 5:15 PM

"This matter will be fully investigated."*US military officials, speaking on condition of anonymity, said the video appeared to be authentic at first look but Reuters could not independently verify the video or its source.

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